It's a night of many frightening things to take in
It's not the way we please ourselves or our friends
It's what we won't accept
It's what will scare us now
Is ourselves, it's ourselves

So tonight as I walk
The moon makes faces at the trees
It's so nice to make fun of everything that I lost,
and I miss, and I love but never had

Tonight I'm gonna take a test to grow up
So I'm sorry for the things I've done to everyone
It's not your face I can't tell
But I try to be this way
It's my own

So tonight as I walk
The moon makes faces at the trees
It's so nice to make fun of everything that I lost,
and I miss, and I love but never had

It's what I can't accept
It's what I can't accept
It is what I can't accept

So tonight as I walk
The moon makes faces at the trees
It's so nice to make fun of everything that I lost,
and I miss, and I love but never had

I'm so happy I could...
do do dodo
do do dodo
do do dodo
do do dodo
do do dodo
do do dodo
do do dodo
do do do do



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    General Comment:WOW. No comments all year on this amazing song. This is probably the best song Ace will ever write. It's incredible. And I think a lot of you guys have the meaning of it right
    Flag iamthenightstarson December 13, 2006   Link
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    General Comment:it most likely isnt the actually meaning of the song, but my interpretation is that he is reflecting on the type of person he once was and realizing that he was the only person to blame ("It's what will scare us now. Is ourselves, it's ourselves"). He's repenting and wanting to change for the better so that he wont hurt himself or others around him. or even more, pay a tribute to those he has already hurt
    Flag XxSUPAstarxX808on December 14, 2005   Link
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    General Comment:I think it's just about accepting change in life and just going with the flow.. smiling when crap things come your way and just making fun of everything that makes you feel down and coping with what you've got.

    After all, we're only here for a short while and we need to make the most of it. :)
    Flag thecomaboyon August 12, 2005   Link
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    General Comment:i think this song is about growing up after a girlfriend has broken up with you
    Flag new_found_glory05on March 31, 2005   Link
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    General Comment:i don't think it's about his ex-girlfriend either.
    his whole idea of creating "i can make a mes.." was to start completely new. he even said “I wanted to go back to the time when music was the only thing that mattered, not all of the other messy things that come with it” on his website.
    i don't think that holding on to ex-girlfriends is starting new. so, yeah
    Flag andthentheresmeon March 19, 2005   Link
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    General Comment:Still think this song can cheer up anybody. I've been listening to it too much and I'm still not tired of it.
    Flag CGKFoxon February 01, 2005   Link
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    General Comment:I don't have the CD yet, I'm getting it for Christmas, but I know the song isn't about his ex-girlfriend. I'm pretty sure that there isn't much on the CD about girls.
    Flag guitar_player05on December 14, 2004   Link
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    General Comment:i knew that was family feud! i could tell by that nice like "doo do loo!" noise when the survey says... okay i'm lame, but i knew it. thank's for the reassurance.
    Flag lit_by_gunfireon November 25, 2004   Link
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    General Comment:do you think this might be about his ex-girlfriend? i mean most of The Room's Too Cold was about her...
    "It's so nice to make fun of everything that I lost,
    and I miss, and I love but never had
    It's what I can't accept "

    that might be about her
    Flag ToTheEndon November 14, 2004   Link
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    General Comment:i love how you can hear "Family Feud" going on in the background of this song
    Flag jlukeson November 02, 2004   Link

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