there's a place your mother goes when everybody else is soundly sleeping
through the lights of beacon street
and if you listen you can hear her weeping, she's weeping, cause the gentlemen are calling and the snow is softly falling on her petticoats. and she's standing in the harbour and she's waiting for the sailors in the jolly boat. see how they approach

with dirty hands and trousers torn they grapple 'til she's safe within their keeping
a gag is placed between her lips to keep her sorry tongue from any speaking, or screaming
and they row her out to packets where the sailor's sorry racket calls for maidenhead
and she's scarce above the gunwales when her clothes fall to a bundle and she's laid in bed on the upper deck

and so she goes from ship to ship, her ankles clasped, her arms so rudely pinioned
'til at last she's satisfied the lost of the marina's teeming minions, and their opinions

and they tell her not to say a thing to cousin, kindred, kith or kin or she'll end up dead
and they throw her thirty dollars and return her to the habor where she goes to bed, and this is how your fed

so be kind to your mother, though she may seem an awful bother, and the next time she tries to feed you collard greens, remember what she does when you're asleep



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"A Cautionary Song" as written by Colin Meloy

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    General Comment:the song's basically like "your mom gets raped to feed you so don't complain about eating vegetables."

    fffuuuuuuuuuuhhhh. . .
    Flag PiGGmalionon June 15, 2012   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:tl;dr, your mom's a whore.
    Flag PiGGmalionon June 15, 2012   Link
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    My Opinion:I love the little bait-and-switches:

    she's safe - within their keeping

    she's satisfied - the lot of the marina's teaming minions

    Of course she is not safe or satisfied at all.
    Flag Ashley Yon February 02, 2011   Link
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    My Interpretation:I think he has a lot more in him that he is trying to tell people than they listen to. Recently he said "we are just a country band and simple folk", but I, again, think they are not. This song is very deep, and very personal, and I imagine there is a story within a story about it.

    I imagine it is something that a mother has to do to support her children, and even though she is not letting on to the children, they/he knows, and while she does it to put the food, (collard greens), on the table, she suffers horribly for it.

    It might not be actually autobiographical, but maybe someone he knows, or from a friend?

    Their music is outstanding. Can't let a day go without listening to one song at least.
    Flag aeriedreamson January 27, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:Such an epic song. It's ineresting how the initial reaction is to be completely disgusted and horrified but for some reason you kind of like it at the same time.

    The Decemberists did an excellent job at painting such a vivid image of this poor desprate woman standing on a dock in the freezing cold waiting for vile sailors to pick her up and "take turns" with her.

    I noticed the disputes over whether this song is about rape or prostitution, and I would honestly have to say both. The prostitution implication is obvious, but I would not be so quick to say that prostitution excludes rape. As the victim of circumstance, does she really WANT to have to feed her family in such a degrading manner? Most likely not. The "do this or my family starves" ultimatum insinuates some form of rape.

    In any case, however you choose to interpret it, and whatever your emotional reaction is to it, I think we can all agree that this is an effing amazing song.
    Flag musefreak52809on December 08, 2010   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:This song is basically one giant "your mom" joke. And a great one at that.
    Flag DonZabuon November 13, 2010   Link
  • 0
    My Opinion:Colin, did you just call my mother a whore?
    Flag Ashley Yon October 27, 2010   Link
  • 0
    My Opinion:Great song... Still, if someone ever insults me in jest, and I have a couple minutes, I'm going to sing this song to them as the ultimate "Your Mom" insult.
    Flag laurelelizabethon December 15, 2009   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:This song and The Shankhill Butchers are stories with a 'moral of the story'. In the Shankhill Butchers the story is saying go to sleep when you're told, or the Butchers will get you (The Shankhill Butchers want to catch you awake). It's the same thing here, a grizly and violent reason to obey your parents. It's overdramatic to make a point, and to be a bit funny.
    Flag incuriaon November 30, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:In many ways, this song is horribly sad. But when I listen to it I like to imagine that someone told Colin a "yo' momma" joke, and this was his response.

    I can just imagine him singing it below some asshole's window at two in the morning.
    Flag Impixon October 19, 2009   Link

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