I know a girl
She puts the color inside of my world
But, she's just like a maze
Where all of the walls all continually change
And I've done all I can
To stand on her steps with my heart in my hand
Now I'm starting to see
Maybe It's got nothing to do with me

Fathers, be good to your daughters
Daughters will love like you do
Girls become lovers who turn into mothers
So mothers be good to your daughters too

Oh, you see that skin?
It's the same she's been standing in
Since the day she saw him walking away
Now she's left cleaning up the mess he made

So fathers, be good to your daughters
Daughters will love like you do
Girls become lovers who turn into mothers
So mothers be good to your daughters too

Boys, you can break
You'll find out how much they can take
Boys will be strong
And boys soldier on
But boys would be gone without warmth from
A woman's good, good heart

On behalf of every man
Looking out for every girl
You are the God and weight of her world

So fathers, be good to your daughters
Daughters will love like you do
Girls become lovers who turn into mothers
So mothers be good to your daughters too
So mothers be good to your daughters too
So mothers be good to your daughters too



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Track duration: 05:05

"Daughters" as written by John Mayer

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    My Interpretation:I think this is pretty clear cut. Mayer's not really one not to wear his heart on his sleeve, and this is quire clearly about a guy who is trying to be in a relationship with a girl but she's so messed up emotionally (possibly from a bad relationship with her father) that he's forced to give up on their relationship (presumably so she can go and work out her daddy issues) rather than just hope that the guy can fix all the things inside her that her father broke.

    Boys are a lot less 'emotional' or at least 'emotionally driven' than girls, and so he's making the distinction. He's not saying that girls aren't as strong as boys, it's more that they genetically tend to think more and analyse situations and their history and the relationships in their lives etc.
    Flag peanutisminton February 26, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:Being an adult son raised by mother who was physically and emotionally abused her whole young life I can say brokenheartedly that a women's pain is generational...
    Flagged duds11on February 09, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:am I the only one who thinks that this song is extremely sexist?
    Flagged brea1212on August 23, 2012   Link
  • -2
    My Opinion:John Mayer thinks daughters need more care than sons.

    John Mayer, go fuck yourself.
    Flagged Greyshadeson August 07, 2012   Link
  • +1
    My Interpretation:This is what this song means to me - I went into therapy about a year ago, and about 6 months in I realized that my husband of 11 years has been singing this to me since we met. The damage done to my heart by my dysfunctional family rendered me incapable of believing anyone really loves me. I believed I wasn't worthy of love.

    Now that I able to see what he was trying to show me all along, and now that I got past being angry with myself for being so blind - I am so grateful that he stuck by me with unconditional patience and love. I finally know and can recognize the love in my life. It took far too long, but here I am. So fathers be good to your daughters - and mothers be good to your daughters too.
    Flagged Phaiaon July 31, 2012   Link
  • +2
    Song Meaning:It's about realizing that a lot of how women are around men can be based on upbringing and past experiences with men. Its not JUST about the current guy that is in the picture. We all have baggage and John realizes in the song that he may not be the reason why the girl is pushing or acting strange. There are a lot of reasons why people are the way they are and he gets that mistreatment or past pain could be the reason why the girl is so odd. He's trying to get others to see how important it is to have good relationships within families from the get go.

    I just like this song cause I can relate entirely. We are all influenced by our family and what we've grown up with so its important to be a good influence to those around you as well as to understand why others may be a certain way. Learn to broaden your view about people.
    Flagged thyi319on July 08, 2012   Link
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    My Interpretation:I relate to this song so much. While I think that the overall song loses some power when you consider the way John has treated his girlfriends in the public eye, I still love it.

    This song encompasses the idea of the lifelong effects that a father's treatment of his daughter has on her love life, and her life in general. The narrator is singing about a girl who is presumably his girlfriend, or someone he wants to become emotionally/romantically involved with. He's done everything he can think of to show her he's worthy and that he will treat her right, but she's showing resistance. While it seems that he initially thought that her behavior was due to his actions, he reaches the conclusion that the way she acts has everything to do with the way she was treated by her father who walked out of her life when she was little.
    Flag Skyefallson July 01, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:can anyone tell me waht literary device and boys soldier on would be? thanks!(:
    Flag hahahahalieon May 15, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:btw...american idol...so sweet jessica was saved today...and her song used to save was deborah cox song “Nobody's Supposed to Be Here,” so so sweet...

    whenever i hear this song "daughters," my heart trembles...in your eyes youtu.be/… artsbeat.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/04/13/on-american-idol-a-shock-then-a-save/

    Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. bible.cc/john/… / bible.us/… / americanidol.com/

    9 But my dove, my perfect one, is unique:
    She is her mother's only daughter;
    She is the pure child of the one who bore her.
    The maidens saw her and called her blessed,
    The queens and the concubines also, and they praised her, saying,

    10 'Who is this that grows like the dawn,
    As beautiful as the full moon,
    As pure as the sun,
    As awesome as an army with banners?'
    bible.us/…
    Flag pmwfotoson April 13, 2012   Link
  • +2
    General Comment:Okay, Im a guy,

    I just made an account to write about this song. This song is great, its my life. In the beginning, Mayer talks about how a girl he likes is just like a maze, walls all continually change. Mayer is talking about girls without dads.

    Dads are not given enough credit. They care SO much about their daughters, they drive them everywhere, buy them huge birthday gifts, buy them cars, and then their daughters leave the house without ever saying enough thanks. But dads are so important. John Mayer says in the song: "You are the God and the weight of her world"

    This line explains that girls without dads, or with dads that dont put all the effort that most dads do, don't grow up ever to be the same. This relates back to the girl Mayer talks about in the beginning, who didn't have a good dad.


    In the end, he talks about how daughters turn into mothers. Those mothers have to be good to their sons, because those sons become fathers. And the cycle repeats....
    Flag johnmayerismylifeon October 09, 2011   Link

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