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When everything is going wrong
And you can't see the point in going on
Well nothing in life is set in stone
There's nothing that can't be turned around
Nobody wants to feel alone
And everybody wants to love someone
Out of the tree go pick a plum
Why can't we all just get along?
Boys in the girl's room
Girls in the men's room
You free your mind in your androgyny
Boys in the parlor
They're getting harder
I'll free your mind and your androgyny
No sweeter a taste that you could find
Than fruit hanging ripe upon the vine
There's never been an oyster so divine
A river deep that never runs dry
The birds and bees they hum along
Like treasures they twinkle in the sun
Get on board and have some fun
Take what you need to turn you on
Behind closed doors and under stars
It doesn't matter where you are
Collecting jewels that catch your eye
Don't let a soul mate pass you by
And you can't see the point in going on
Well nothing in life is set in stone
There's nothing that can't be turned around
Nobody wants to feel alone
And everybody wants to love someone
Out of the tree go pick a plum
Why can't we all just get along?
Boys in the girl's room
Girls in the men's room
You free your mind in your androgyny
Boys in the parlor
They're getting harder
I'll free your mind and your androgyny
No sweeter a taste that you could find
Than fruit hanging ripe upon the vine
There's never been an oyster so divine
A river deep that never runs dry
The birds and bees they hum along
Like treasures they twinkle in the sun
Get on board and have some fun
Take what you need to turn you on
Behind closed doors and under stars
It doesn't matter where you are
Collecting jewels that catch your eye
Don't let a soul mate pass you by
Lyrics submitted by Metal6Hell6Maker6
Track duration: 03:09
"Androgyny" as written by Shirley Ann Manson, Bryan David Vig, Douglas Elwin Erickson, Steve W Marker
Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Universal Music Publishing Group
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One of Plato's characters, Aristophanes, in "The Symposium" explains how androgyny relates to love which is what this song is about.
In the beginning everyone had two sets of all body parts, Zeus chopped humans in half because he was angry with us, then he came back and moved our genitals around so we could have sex while we embraced (he pitied us because we were dying of hunger and inactivity from not wanting to release our embrace on our other half).
"Nobody wants to feel alone
And everybody wants to love someone" (lines 5-6)
After we were cut in half we went looking for our other half because we originally had that someone to make us whole.
"You free your mind in your androgyny" (line 11)
Aristophanes applauds male-male relationships between men and boys since such couples value boldness, braveness, and masculinity both in themselves and in others.
"They're getting harder" (line 13)
The reason for Pederasty (a usually erotic relationship between an older man and an adolescent boy) was to educate, protect, and provide a role model for the younger boy, so "they're getting harder" is like the young boys learning to grow a thicker skin and not be as easily hurt by the world.
"Don't let a soulmate pass you by" (line 26)
This one is easy, it refers to the androgynous person always searching for their other half (their soulmate).
Plato. (c. 427-347 BC). The Symposium. Athens, Greece: Penguin Classics.
And everybody wants to love someone
.. Don't let a soulmate pass you by"
- i think this song means that we should not be afraid to express the wanting to love and be love coz its all natural whatever we think our gender is.
sometimes i think of myself as a 'freaky-looking guy' too and this song makes me believe that its okay.
(Heh, this coming from an asexual... But even though I don't have a sex drive, I tend to pretty much ignore gender when someone's aura pulls me in. The personality is the fun part! :D)
With the whole "boys in the girls' room, girls in the men's room" bit, I immediately thought it had to do with transsexuality. Maybe about seeing a TG person in a public restroom and being unsure of their gender and whether they belong there or not. Public restrooms are a pretty awkward place, since you don't want to go in one and it's illegal to go in the other. I've been stopped more than once on my way in by people saying "Hey, that's the women's room!" and I have to just sigh and say, "I know." And I'm sure that most of the women in there must be thinking "...What's a boy doing in here? Is he lost? ...Is that a girl?"
I also think the song is making a statement about disregarding gender. Like "Who cares if it's a boy in the girls' room or a girl in the men's room? It doesn't matter. Be androgynous and look past all of that." I think it's talking about not making any decisions about a person because of their gender, because that isn't who they are. Maybe you're a straight guy or a straight girl (or at least you see yourself that way), but you never know when that one different guy or girl could come along and change everything for you.
In short, I think it's saying to just forget about gender. Gender isn't who a person is, so that shouldn't affect how you see them or stop you from loving them.
After "A river deep that never runs dry" She says "What you need" repeatedly. If you listen to this with earphones on in stereo it sounds like she's floating slowly around your head. maybe a reference to the birds and bees, or am i overestimating their wit reading into it too much. Nah, i think they meant it. I love that part.