Lyrics for What A Good Boy as interpreted by ojms

What A Good Boy Lyrics
Words by Steven Page
Music by Steven Page & Ed Robertson
When I was born they looked at me and said
What a good boy, what a smart boy, what a strong boy
And when you were born they looked at you and said
What a good girl, what a smart girl, what a pretty girl

We've got these chains that hang around our necks
People want to strangle us with them before we take our
first breath
Afraid of change, afraid of staying the same
When temptation calls we just look away

Chorus
This name is the hairshirt I wear
And this hairshirt is woven from your brown hair
This song is the cross that I bear
Bear it with me, bear with me, bear with me
Be with me tonight
I know that it isn't right
But be with me tonight

I go to school, I write exams
If I pass, if I fail, if I drop out, does anyone give a damn?
And if they do, they'll soon forget
'Cause it won't take much for me to show that my life ain't
over yet

I wake up scared, I wake up strange
I wake up wondering if anything in my life is ever going to
change
I wake up scared, I wake up strange
And everything around me stays the same

Chorus

I couldn't tell you that I was wrong
Chickened out, grabbed a pen and paper, sat down and I
wrote this song
I couldn't tell you that you were right
So instead I looked in the mirror watched tv laid awake all
night

We've got these chains that hang around our necks
People want to strangle us with them before we take our
first breath
Afraid of change, afraid of staying the same
When temptation calls....

Chorus

When I was born they looked at me and said
What a good boy, what a smart boy, what a strong boy
And when you were born they looked at you and said
What a good girl, what a smart girl, what a pretty girl, hey

Andy Creeggan: Organ, piano
Jim Creeggan: Double Bass
Steven Page: Guitar, Lead vocal
Ed Robertson: Guitars, vocals
Tyler Stewart: Drums

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Vex_Fox
11-20-2008

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Whoops sorry about that as i said Newb XD

This song, just like all songs is set to be interpreted by the listener. A lot of us can relate to it based upon specific lines, but the ones I've always had trouble with interpreting for myself was the line "We've got these chains that hang around our necks
People want to strangle us with them before we take our first breath"

Now then this could go into a controversial topic but i personally view it now before and after reading your comments that it's about people trying to control our lives and we're suffocated before we get our first real breathe of freedom, we go from immature children and go directly from there into high school and people expect you to be mature, then college where your immature again or your to focused on passing to let yourself be seen.

I'm going to say this song is about being born and trapped into a world where being yourself is considered wrong by a lot of people, it's also about loving somebody but being unable to either see them or more literally "be" with them.

I must agree that it is indeed a very powerful song and anybody who can't see it as such i will pity.

Oh and hey guys, I'm a newbie here just signed up really to post for this particular song :D

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thecoldpart
02-18-2008

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You know...I think people tend to look at them as a completely joking band (because of the humor in their music, and their constant jokes and all that) but this song really puts them on another level, in my opinion. I think the power of this song lies in the fact that it is something everyone can identify with. From what I can gather, he's basically saying from the moment we're born, people are already planning our lives. We're put into a mold from the first breath we take, and we're expected to fit that mold.

"I wake up scared, I wake up strange
I wake up wondering if anything in my life is ever going to change
I wake up scared, I wake up strange
And everything around me stays the same"

Who can't identify with that?

That's why this song is timeless.

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jimmyfro5
02-09-2008

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great debate folks. Newbie here. I've been playing this song in my set for years. I usually dedicate is to my mother who has passed just because it has the sentiment and mood.
I sometimes wonder though if my dedication is inappropriate because of the subtle taboo or sexual implicaction.
I believe the "hairshirt" is a metaphor for the Gender Name Boy or Girl. He's saying that it's hasty and maybe some kind of an imposition. I can't rule out the brother sister theory, but I wonder if he's homosexual and he's talking about himself and maybe the female "what a good girl." is just the person he's talking to or maybe just part of his argument.

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groovetrippin
12-05-2007

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I take and understand that this song means... we are not perfect regardless of what is expected of us from family, friends and society... We are going to have to wear our mistakes until we prove ourselves otherwise.. some never do.

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spookythebando
11-18-2007

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This song has been my favourite song for the longest time.... Probably half of my life by now. The "I go to school" line has been my anthem... Actually... This song has been my anthem. It's just beautiful and describes me perfectly. Thank you Steven Page for this...

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itsourtimenow
11-07-2007

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i've always thought of this song, as a guy that likes a younger girl.
we always sing this song at the summer camp i've attended for years. where i met my boyfriend, who was a counsellor at the time, and i was a camper, he used to sing this song to me after the campfires, because he is a few years older than i am. & it "wasn't right" at the time, because he was a counsellor.

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xmakesherflyx
08-30-2007

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Great song. Seems to be about being afraid of the future or growing up, all the stuff that comes with it.

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bugoff
08-02-2007

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This song is about the struggles of growing up , making decisions, and living up to expectations.

"This name is the hairshirt I wear
And this hairshirt is woven from your brown hair "

The name is not the one by birth but the assumed titles of expecations: "good boy", strong boy", "smart boy." The hairshirt is woven from the hair of the girl he lusts after because her sight forces him to wrestle with difficult feelings/emotions... she tempts him to violate family/religious principles but he should be a "good boy" and resist because they aren't married or whatever.

"I go to school, I write exams ..."

This covers how he is supposed to be a "smart boy"

"I wake up scared, I wake up strange ..."
"I couldn't tell you that I was wrong..."

These feelings contradict how he is supposed to be a "strong boy" and some more "good boy"

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Skydog
07-15-2007

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To me, it is a song that fits my life. Living with depression, you're told to change things, but as Stephen Page writes -

I wake up scared, I wake up strange
I wake up wondering if anything in my life is ever going to
change
I wake up scared, I wake up strange
And everything around me stays the same

Depression can seem like that, endless, and yet you should always try to find a way out of it.

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Colonel Kurtz
06-06-2007

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On the live version I have of this song, on the chorus before the last verse I think the lyrics change, instead of 'Bear it with me, bear with me, bear with me
Be with me tonight ' I think he says 'bury it with me' as if he is telling the girl/other person to bury all the expectations and hair shirts that have been placed on them, and then they can be with each other. I'm English and BNL aren't so big over here, so maybe its an accent that just makes it sound different :P but iv listened to it over and over to try and tell...

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Graustein
04-23-2007

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JimFranklin, you have no idea how offensive your post was to me. I am a Jew, and you assumptions not only sicken me, but are all wrong!
1) we do not wear chains! what gave you that stupid idea? SOME of us MIGHT wear a Magen David on a chain around our necks, but so what? how does that imply that as a culture we wear chains? I've seen way more Christians with crosses than Jews with Magen Davids. you are just wrong.
2) which brings me to my next point. We most certaintly do NOT bear crosses! I can't believe how stupid it is to assume it's a Jew talking about him bearing a cross.
3) what is with the assumption that, because incest is considered taboo by this guy's community, he must be Jewish? correct me if i'm wrong, but can anybody tell me of a modern-day religion where incest is in fact NOT frowned upon?

OK, sorry about that, everyone, but these assumptions of his are too much to bear.

On a much more mellow note, and probably arising from my desire to muddy the waters here and draw the conversation away from Jews, did he ever say that "This name" was in fact HIS name? It's a reasonable assumption to make, and i can't really think of anything else he could be referring to, but did he actually SAY it?

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Nossarella
04-06-2007

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Im not a huge BNL fan but Ive always loved this song...especially the live version, I think it's the best.


A hairshirt is like a Cilice (like from the DaVinci Code)
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A cilice was originally a garment or undergarment made of coarse cloth or animal hair (a hairshirt). In more modern religious circles, the word has come to simply mean an object that can be worn to induce some degree of discomfort or pain.

Totally makes sense to me now

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Boobooatomic
12-24-2006

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I think that the line "be with me tonight" doesn't actually have much to do with getting laid. I think that it connects more to the line later in the song "I wake up scared I wake up strange" because the singer just wants someone there with him when he wakes up terrifed, he doesn't want to be alone. I could be crazy though...

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bassturd75
10-17-2006

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Dag88. Why????? Why did you do it???? There is no excuse for your comments on this song and I hope God has mercy on your soul. Now go to the dungeon to receive your lashings.

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Elvishswimmer
04-08-2006

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I would just like to say that i love this song! i love the power that he sings it. without even listening to the words you can feel inspired

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Micah234
03-24-2006

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First of all, this is one of my favorite songs, it's just really beautiful and poignant. What I personally think it's about is the girl he loves, and secondly, the chains of society. He may only be in high school, because of the "write exams" and "I know it isn't right", part. The temptation part may be that they feel the need to be together, but look away, so they don't get too carried away. But I think that when he says 'be with me tonight', he doesn't necessarily mean sexually, just to be there with him. The chains around his neck could symbolize the expectations of others, binding him to their own idea of who he should be. Well, regardless of what it symbolizes, it's a beautiful song that deserves all these degrees of contemplation.

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sl8r
01-30-2006

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the version on Rock Spectacle is amazing, so atmospheric. i like 2 c this song as about the expectations on ppl from bein a kid cos i relate to that view of it the most.

"I go to school, I write exams
If I pass, if I fail, if I drop out, does anyone give a damn?
And if they do, they'll soon forget
'Cause it won't take much for me to show that my life ain't
over yet"

as tho academic success is all that matters instead of actually livin life

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TheSilverNoble
01-27-2006

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jim- I have a few problems with your reasoning.

When he says that his name is hairshirt or whatever- a hairshirt is a thing of shame right? Well you obviously get your last name from your parents, and sometimes even your first name. No matter what he does, he still feels their expectations weighing him down becuase its in his very name.

and its woven from her hair because something about her would shame his parents (perhaps that fact that he wants to be with her before marriage).

I think you looked into the Jewish thing a bit too much. I don't think that the chains are nessisarily indicative of his religion. I know several jewish people who don't wear stars of david around their neck. i think the chains are strictly a metaphor. However, it is a jewish beleif that the soul enters the body with the first breath, or so I am told.

while I suppose it could be as you intially said, this just seems more likely to me.

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Sammich
12-22-2005

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JimFranklin, there is absolutely no concrete evidence proving that it's about a brother/sister relationship. By your argument alone, we could determine that it's about a man in love with a sheep, as well.

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I_LOVE_CAMP
12-07-2005

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DAGG88! I have never been so offended in my whole life! The fact that you can be so niave about the meaning of a song sickens me! Geeze, I'm 15 and I knew what this song was about by listening to the lyrics when I was 12! This song has such a deep meaning that goes way beyond your frame of mind! It's true art unlike your portrail of it! I'm shocked, truly shocked.

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jimfranklin
10-13-2005

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I wish I could agree with fidget12 (who I think best interpreted the song so far), that this song is about, "the expectations that others have placed on them since the day they were born" but for some reason every time I hear this song I think that it is about a boy who has a crush on either his sister or his cousin, and is torn because he can't be with her.

I think of this because of these lines:

1) "This name is the hairshirt I wear
And this hairshirt is woven from your brown hair"

His name is a hairshirt because he is related to her, and "is woven from your brown hair" which means that she is the cause of his hairshirt (or pain, curse).

2) "We've got these chains that hang around our necks
People want to strangle us with them before we take our
first breath
Afraid of change, afraid of staying the same
When temptation calls we just look away"

This verse is implying that the boy and girl are Jewish because they wear chains and "people want to strangle us with them before we take our first breath." Also Steven Page (who wrote the song) is Jewish, so this is a no brainer.
Next it says "When temptation calls we just look away" This means that the boy and girl just looked away because they knew it wasn't right when awkward situations arose.

This verse also implies that this boy and girl can not be together because of their religion. (I am not Jewish, and I don't know much about it, so I wouldn't know.) But I don't think so because why would his name be his hairshirt? His religion would be his hairshirt.

3) "This song is the cross that I bear
Bear it with me, bear with me, bear with me
Be with me tonight
I know that it isn't right
But be with me tonight"

He is telling her that the song (which is about them not being able to be together) is what he bears, and he wants her to bear it with him, and to be with him tonight, altho "I know that it isn't right"

4) "I couldn't tell you that I was wrong
Chickened out, grabbed a pen and paper, sat down and I
wrote this song
I couldn't tell you that you were right
So instead I looked in the mirror watched TV laid awake all
night"

He can't tell her that it is wrong because he still feels for her.

Also the first verse, which is just starting the story about the boy and the girl. In the verse "they said what a good boy..." THEY SAID is probably their family.
_______________________

So, there are my reasons for me thinking it is about a boy who likes his sister/cousin. I hope someone can prove me wrong, because it is a great song and I don't want it to be about a weird brother sister relationship.

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xx_sunshine
07-01-2005

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What stops us.. prevents us.. holds us back from being who we truly are. Constantly questioning ourselves, regretting, and forgetting.

"Afraid of change, afraid of staying the same"
I think everyone can identify themselve's with that lyric.

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ShannyH
05-13-2005

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So powerful this song is to me, that I wrote my son, currently away at college to apologize to him if I ever boxed him in with expectations and pre-conceived notions of what he should, could, would be in his life. Our bond is so special to me and this song caused me to stop and truly appreciate the beautiful man/child I have!

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jfish
04-26-2005

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This song takes me back to freshman year of college. To me its about breaking out of the labels everyone gave you growing up, about wanting love & about being lonely and wanting to have that physical closeness to someone. Yearning for intimacy. It's about this guy being afraid to let those feelings out because its been so drilled into him that he's a "good boy" and that it's wrong to be have sex "when temptation calls". "be with me tonight. i know that it isn't right". The whole hairshirt reference is that his good boy labels torture him with guilt for having feelings that contradict those labels. I get so nostalgic thinking about this song, it brings me back to a time when I was breaking out of those "good girl" labels and discovering love and sex and myself. I was away at college and no one there knew me and could emerge as whatever I wanted. An exciting, confusing, amazing time. I think about the "good boys" I was attracted to back then and how full of angst they were as they too were fighting these labels & the ever-present guilt. A bunch of conservative, protestant, midwesterner young adults let loose at a very liberal state university. This song gets into my soul.

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Desaparecida
04-23-2005

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i absolutely LOVE this song. my friend had some of the lyrics as her away message one day, and i downloaded the song based just on that, haven\'t regretted it for a moment.

by the way, according to dictionary.com, hairshirt is an adjective meaning \"self-sacrificing\"... *shrug*

i think this song is about someone raised in a very specific but limiting manner, with a very limited viewpoint, and then this person meets someone who\'s very different from him, someone he wants to be with, but feels he can\'t be with, due to how he was brought up. the other person (presumably female) says, hey that\'s stupid, but he still can\'t be with her

i dunno that doesn\'t make a whole lot of sense...it makes sense to Me, anyway..

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