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Only now that you have taught me
(but how late) my lack
I see the chasm
And everything you are was making
My heart into a bridge
By which I might get back
From exile and grow man
And now the bridge is breaking
For this I bless you as the ruin falls
The pain you bring
Far greater than all other gain
(but how late) my lack
I see the chasm
And everything you are was making
My heart into a bridge
By which I might get back
From exile and grow man
And now the bridge is breaking
For this I bless you as the ruin falls
The pain you bring
Far greater than all other gain
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In his love for his wife he felt that she was teaching him to be a man, less selfish and selfseeking - she was his bridge out of his "proper skin" - out of himself if you like.
Unfortunately his wife died of cancer early on in their marriage and he is mourning her before she dies by saying that it is only now that she is dying that he realises his need for her (his bridge out of his selfish ways is breaking, because she is dying).
God comes in at the last verse, he was a Christian and believed that his pain at loosing her is part of a higher good. He is blessing God for breaking him (the ruin falls) and is telling God the pains he brings to his life are more precious than anything he can do for himself.
Such an amazing verse. The poem is also sung in full by Phil Keagy who is the most amazing guitarist by the way!
The first stanzas signify his life before her and the last two signify what she has done for him and opened his eyes, the only problem was that he realized what was happening to late.
I did a paper on this poem in one of my freshman english classes at college. Three weeks of studying the poem did a lot to how I react with people and myself.