Driving faster in my car
Falling farther from just what we are
Smoke a cigarette and lie some more
These conversations kill.
Falling faster in my car.
Time to take her home,
her dizzy head is conscious laden.
Time to take a ride it leaves today
no conversation
Time to take her home her dizzy head is
conscious laden
time to wait too long, to wait too long,
to wait too long.

Too much walking shoes worn thin
too much trippin' and my soul's worn thin
Time to catch her ride it leaves today,
her name is what it means
Too much walking shoe worn thin
Time to take her home,
her dizzy head is conscious laden.
Time to take a ride it leaves today
no conversation
Time to take her home her dizzy head is
conscious laden
time to wait too long, to wait too long,
to wait too long.

Conversations kill
Conversations kill
Conversations kill

Time to take her home,
her dizzy head is conscious laden.
Time to take a ride it leaves today
no conversation
Time to take her home her dizzy head is
conscious laden
time to wait too long, to wait too long,
to wait too long.

Conversations kill
Conversations kill
Conversations kill



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"Big Empty" as written by Dean Deleo, Robert Emile Deleo, Eric Kretz, Scott Richard Weiland

Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., EMI Music Publishing

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    General Comment:"Time to take a ride, it leaves today, no conversation"
    Always makes me think of an addict pondering the prospect of rehab.
    Flag Tig45on November 15, 2012   Link
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    My Opinion:I really like the heroin interpretation. I've never done drugs, but my brother did meth RIP, and we had one of those convos the last time I saw him. Me telling him you need to stay clean, because he appeared to be so and him saying he would. That was in June 2009. September 7th 2009 we get a phone call that he's dead. I kept thinking if only I'd have known, I'd have stood in our driveway and held him forever. I'd have never let him go!! And that convo does kill me, every time I think about it it kills me a little more.

    Also, the date rape theory seems plausible. her dizzy head is conscious laden. . . give someone GHB and that's how they are. Kidnap someone and use chloroform on them, something like that.

    And the person who said it's alot deeper than what Scott wants us to think. I can see that to. I know alot of singers who won't tell the audience what every song is about because they want them to come up with their own interpretations and if they tell us what ever song is about they think we won't. I do, but I like knowing their interpretation as well.
    Flag MaggieMichelleon August 29, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:This song is about heroin. It is a double entendre. The surface layer is fucking in a car and then taking a girl home. The second layer is about doing heroin. Empty is how heroin addicts feel when they are coming off of dope.
    "Falling farther from just what we are" You, and especially your family and friends feel like you've become something else when you are high and when you are addicted even if you are sober.
    "Smoke a cigarette and lie some more these conversations kill." The feeling you get while on heroin is a lie. And sometimes you even know that while you are on heroin. Part of you knows that and fights with you to stop because you see yourself self-destructing.
    "Falling faster in my car". Coming down hard
    "Time to take her home" He is taking his heroine home
    "Time to wait too long" He is driving home to shoot up but he just bought the dope and he has a long ride. It's like hurry up and wait.
    "Too much walking shoes worn thin. Too much trippin and my soul's worn thin." He feels like hes been doing this for far too long and he can't go on much longer. Tripping's double entendre is the drug kind of tripping. He is equating soul to sole as on a shoe from the above line. Every time a heroin addict comes down they feel like they lose a piece of their soul. Well, that's what they say anyway.
    "Time to catch a ride it leaves today" The rush is gonna happen today. He is gonna fly
    "Her name is what it means." Heroin/heroine. She = heroin. What she means = his heroine. ( pretty clever )

    Hope this helps. Those who said it was about a girl are probably the same people who said Amanda Palmer's The Point of it All was literally about a doll. Double entrendres people. It seems they are lost on so many. *sigh*
    Flag Vixxenkisson June 06, 2012   Link
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    My Interpretation:The best interpretation of this song - I don't know if anyone has said this yet.

    This song is about a dude who tries to bring home some girl that he found stupid enough to want to come with him, and he feels that she may notice that he is a creep (and could potentially date rape her), and she may not want to go upstairs with him. The narrator is thinking that the more they talk, the less she may want to do it, thus "Drivin' faster in my car," and "These conversations kill," and the line "Her dizzy head is conscious laden," is showing the fact that she has a conflict in her mind of whether or not to go with him (and it may show that she is not the smartest girl of all time, maybe a bit trashy).
    "Time to catch her ride it leaves today," shows that maybe by the next day she will not want to be anywhere near him, and she'd have made up her mind and left.

    If you read the lyrics after reading this comment, you will see.
    Flag Brosephinaon May 06, 2012   Link
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    Song Meaning:Regardless of the songs true meaning I believe anyone can personally transform a song into their own from their own experiences. Dunno if anyone can relate at all but the words to me have simple meaning from events from my last relationship. I literally see the person driving a girl home for the last time as their relationship has just ended. Both of them falling further from what they are. One moving on and changing and the other becoming hurt and sad over the loss. The smoking of a cigarette just appears to relate to some sort of dirty act being accomplished through one of the people becoming a liar. The prime reason the relationship ended. Each conversation kills them both more. Taking her home falling into sadness her dizzy head is a reference to her poor decision making and new lieing habit. Hes taking her home and hes going to wait to long before he's himself again after losing her this way. The shoes and soul are referencing himself. Hes to worn out from all pain. Its time to wait way to long for his pain to end because of what shes become. Any contact and conversation with her will kill him inside.
    Flagged philosiphicate3124on October 19, 2011   Link
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    Song Meaning:Idk, but im kinda thinkin its bout him, pickin up a prostitute, give her a ride back, havin that awkward trip. Too much walking, shoes worn thin? because a prostitute is always on foot, her shoes are wearing thin?
    Flag DarkinsideFakeoutsideon September 14, 2011   Link
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    My Interpretation:Right now, this song means a lot to more for a lot of reasons.

    It seems that there are a lot of conflicts in what Scott said the song means, from being about the band being on a near break-up during the last part of the Core tour to just being about a back-seat fuck. I think Scott might say that a song is about something meaningless when in fact it means a lot more to him than that just that because either he doesn't like to relive the memories behind it or to adjust the meaning to fit him in his current life. I dunno.

    But if I had to say what this song is about, I would say that it's a more "bigger picture" kind of song. I think it's about anyone reaching that point of realization in their lives; a point where they finally realize that they need to stop pretending or being purposefully ignorant about an issue or something, and the person is feeling defeated because they know they can't keep it up. It could be about a relationship they want to keep or something else. They still don't want to hear the truth (conversations kill), even though they know it's already over. The big empty the song references is that feeling of defeat, exhaustion, and reflection that comes with the realization.

    We all can relate to the song, but Scott paints a scene that is familiar to him. A lot of artists do that; write about a certain event or scene personal to them, yet the song probably has a bigger meaning.
    Flagged Lanedudeon March 15, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:I always thought it was about a female drunk drive that gets caught mainly because of the line "Time to take her home, her dizzy head is conscience laden" i.e she feels bad about it.
    Flag Gimodonon March 07, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:scott weiland was married to his first wife ( not mary ) during the process of recording purple in atlanta. he kept making promises to his wife that he would not use heroin anymore but was unable fullfill those promises. im sure she was aware of it and it created tensions between the 2 and would create those kind of silent moments you get after a disagreement/fight with your spouse. this song to me perfectly describes those kind of "silent moments"
    Flag mvickismydogon January 05, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:jesus christ.. how many classics can one band make??

    this was STP's first single from their second album but already the 6th song of theirs to get massive airplay.

    Can any other band say theyve done that?
    Flag masculinejollyrancheron November 07, 2010   Link

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