The song was directed at his parents - regarding his wife. By the time the song went to #1, they had broken up,...

If you could only see the way she loves me
Then maybe you would understand
Why I feel this way about our love
And what I must do
If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says

When she says she loves me
Well you got your reasons
And you got your lies
And you got your manipulations
They cut me down to size
Sayin' you love but you don't
You give your love but you won't
If you could only see the way she loves me

Then maybe you would understand
Why I feel this way about our love
And what I must do
If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says

When she says she loves me
Seems the road less traveled
Show's happiness unraveled
And you got to take a little dirt

To keep what you love
That's what you gotta do
Sayin' you love but you don't
You give your love but you won't
You're stretching out your arms to something that's just not there

Sayin' you love where you stand
Give your heart when you can
If you could only see the way she loves me
Then maybe you would understand
Why I feel this way about our love
And what I must do
If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
When she says she loves me

Sayin' you love but you don't
You give your love but you won't
Sayin' you love where you stand
Give your heart when you can

If you could only see the way she loves me
Then maybe you would understand
Why I feel this way about or love
And what I must do
If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
When she says she loves me



Lyrics submitted by kevin

Track duration: 04:23

"If You Could Only See" as written by Emerson Hart

Lyrics © EMI Music Publishing

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    General Comment:The artist said that this song was written to his family in regard to their disdain for a relationship he was in with an older woman...
    Flag crlyon April 19, 2013   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:The artist said that this song was written to his family in regard to their disdain for a relationship he was in with an older woman...
    Flag crlyon April 19, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:I think this song could be put on here differently so that it's flows like a conversation/explanations and then his thoughts.

    *To the friends and family who want him to leave a toxic relationship:

    "If you could only see the way she loves me
    Then maybe you would understand
    Why I feel this way about our love
    And what I must do
    If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
    When she says she loves me" (Codependency)

    *Tumultuous thoughts about this girl he was sticking up for:
    Well you got your reasons
    And you got your lies
    And you got your manipulations
    They cut me down to size
    Sayin' you love but you don't
    You give your love but you won't

    *Excuses to friends a family:

    "If you could only see the way she loves me
    Then maybe you would understand
    Why I feel this way about our love
    And what I must do
    If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
    When she says she loves me"

    *Tumultuous Thoughts:

    Seems the road less traveled
    Show's happiness unraveled
    And you got to take a little dirt
    To keep what you love
    That's what you gotta do...

    Sayin' you love but you don't
    You give your love but you won't
    You're stretching out your arms to something that's just not there.
    Sayin' you love where you stand
    Give your heart when you can

    *Excuses for staying with her:

    "If you could only see the way she loves me
    Then maybe you would understand
    Why I feel this way about our love
    And what I must do
    If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
    When she says she loves me"

    *Tumultuous Thoughts -

    Sayin' you love but you don't
    You give your love but you won't
    Sayin' you love where you stand
    Give your heart when you can

    *Excuses -

    "If you could only see the way she loves me
    Then maybe you would understand
    Why I feel this way about or love
    And what I must do
    If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
    When she says she loves me"
    Flag sem3000on February 05, 2013   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:I think this song could be put on here differently so that it's flows like a conversation/explanations and then his thoughts.

    *To the friends and family who want him to leave a toxic relationship:

    "If you could only see the way she loves me
    Then maybe you would understand
    Why I feel this way about our love
    And what I must do
    If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
    When she says she loves me" (Codependency)

    *Tumultuous thoughts about this girl he was sticking up for:
    Well you got your reasons
    And you got your lies
    And you got your manipulations
    They cut me down to size
    Sayin' you love but you don't
    You give your love but you won't

    *Excuses to friends a family:

    "If you could only see the way she loves me
    Then maybe you would understand
    Why I feel this way about our love
    And what I must do
    If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
    When she says she loves me"

    *Tumultuous Thoughts:

    Seems the road less traveled
    Show's happiness unraveled
    And you got to take a little dirt
    To keep what you love
    That's what you gotta do...

    Sayin' you love but you don't
    You give your love but you won't
    You're stretching out your arms to something that's just not there.
    Sayin' you love where you stand
    Give your heart when you can

    *Excuses for staying with her:

    "If you could only see the way she loves me
    Then maybe you would understand
    Why I feel this way about our love
    And what I must do
    If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
    When she says she loves me"

    *Tumultuous Thoughts -

    Sayin' you love but you don't
    You give your love but you won't
    Sayin' you love where you stand
    Give your heart when you can

    *Excuses -

    "If you could only see the way she loves me
    Then maybe you would understand
    Why I feel this way about or love
    And what I must do
    If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
    When she says she loves me"
    Flag sem3000on February 05, 2013   Link
  • +1
    Song Meaning:This song is about a 15 year old girl who was in love with an older man (a lot older 30+). Obviously it's told from the POV of the man. The manipulators are her parents, her father is a well respected judge. The lyric "you gotta take a little dirt to get why you love" is referring to dealing with her parents and the law, etc.
    If you watch the video it becomes clearer. It's a hidden love affair that comes to the notice of her parents, she sits with them in the police station as the band plays from the interrogation room. This was also stated by mollarwow21. It's interesting how everyone is set on the "two loves" or leaving his love meaning, when it's so clear from the video.
    Flag naps101on December 27, 2012   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:Loved this song since it came out
    Flag karmakipperon June 06, 2012   Link
  • 0
    My Opinion:I feel like he's telling his current partner that hes met his real true love. Saying that his current partner lies and manipulates but his new love actually cares about him.
    Flag RachelBlondie401on December 30, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:I always thought of this song as the typical Romeo:Juliet with friends/family diapproving of the girl... but after readings MOMENTS2C's explanation above-- wow, that really fits perfectly. (maybe not even married, just leaving one committed relationship to another). And agreed re: the grass is always greener... the euphoria only lasts a certain amount of time before reality and imperfections/friction start appearing.

    It may not have been what they meant when they originally wrote it, but seems to be hand:glove to me.
    bravo!
    Flag drds63on December 10, 2011   Link
  • +2
    General Comment:The words of this song are expressing the reasons for leaving a wife. He is telling his wife that her love is toxic to him and the way she treated him was demoralizing. He expresses how she made him feel compared to how this other woman makes him feel. He compares the two loves. The dirt reference is to express the grief and the suffering that he knows will go with his choice to leave. He then expresses that if he wants to be happy than this less traveled road is the one that he must take. She in turn now has her arms reaching out to him but, he no longer wants her.

    The chorus is his constant expression (or self reassurance) of wanting her to understand why he's leaving. He is telling her that the love of this other woman justifies his decision to leave and all of the fallout suffering that will follow his decision.

    Personal note: Too bad the grass is never greener on the other side... At least not for that long. Fix something that is broken, instead of trading it in for a new model... They all have their own set of problems and in the long run you will be happier. Trust me, I know --- thedivorceattorneyswife.com/
    Flag moments2con November 08, 2011   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:Pretty sure it's about a pedo trying to explain himself to the cops for hookin up with an underage girl. Pretty sure.
    Flag mallorwow21on May 26, 2011   Link

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