We've all seen a man at the liquor store beggin' for your change
The hair on his face is dirty, dread-locked, and full of mange
He asks a man for what he could spare, with shame in his eyes
"Get a job you fucking slob," is all he replies
God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in his shoes
Cause then you really might know what it's like to sing the blues

[Chorus]
Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like

Mary got pregnant from a kid named Tom that said he was in love
He said, "Don't worry about a thing, baby doll
I'm the man you've been dreaming of."
But three months later he say he won't date her or return her calls
And she swear, "God damn, if I find that man I'm cuttin' off his balls."
And then she heads for the clinic and
She gets some static walking through the door
They call her a killer, and they call her a sinner
And they call her a whore
God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in her shoes
Cause then you really might know what it's like to have to choose

[Chorus]

I've seen a rich man beg
I've seen a good man sin
I've seen a tough man cry
I've seen a loser win
And a sad man grin
I heard an honest man lie
I've seen the good side of bad
And the downside of up
And everything between
I licked the silver spoon
Drank from the golden cup
And smoked the finest green
I stroked the fattest dimes at least a couple of times
Before I broke their heart
You know where it ends, yo, it usually depends on where you start

I knew this kid named Max
Who used to get fat stacks out on the corner with drugs
He liked to hang out late
He liked to get shit-faced and keep the pace with thugs
Until late one night there was a big gun fight and Max lost his head
He pulled out his chrome .45, talked some shit, and wound up dead
Now his wife and his kids are caught in the midst of all of this pain
You know it comes that way
At least that's what they say when you play the game
God forbid you ever had to wake up to hear the news
Cause then you really might know what it's like to have to lose

Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like
Then you really might know what it's like...to have to lose



Lyrics submitted by kevin

Track duration: 05:03

"What It's Like" as written by Erik Schrody

Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.

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    Song Comparison:The lyrics are so straightfoward and from the heart; it's a beautiful song.

    If I'm not mistaken, the first verse of this song references or seems inspired by the first verse of "The Way It Is" by Bruce Hornsby. In that song, a guy tells a woman waiting in the welfare line to "get a job!"

    Did anyone else think that was a Hornsby reference?
    Flag YaqoHomoon August 12, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:Even though he sings in "slang" and "street" or "hood"-the message is east to get and it is a good song.
    Flag emuInAmuumuuon May 09, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:"I stroked the fattest (phattest) dimes at least a couple of times before I broke their heart." means the hottest (phattest, best) dimes is a 10 (perfect 10 - very hot chick), then of course after he got together with them, he broke their heart for whatever reason. Amazing song.
    Flag DrunkenMasteron April 30, 2012   Link
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    My Interpretation:You must first see how it it to live in somebody other than yourself,.... to pass judgement.
    Flag CloserGuy74on December 16, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:to put it simply, this song is about how people are so judgemental. how they label a person by their looks before ever learning the whole story of that person's life. it's about how people's mistakes all too often define who they are.
    Flagged EminemsGurlon August 07, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:This song tells you that people need to be given 2nd chances it is a great song and it goes straight to my heart "God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in his shoes, then you really might no what it's like" don't judge people on what they have done i have made plenty of mistakes and am loosing everything i have worked for, i would love for some people to just give me a fair go in life thats why i feel thos song is so great i can relate to it.
    Flag bjwhawker23on April 22, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:This song is all too real and hits home for me. I know what it's like to have to choose. All these abortion is wrong people do need to realise at 18 I was no way fit to be a mother,and what about the right to my life?? This song gives so many different perspectives on life and I'm sure everyone can relate in some way,that's what I love about Everlast,he writes from the heart.
    Flag Kendrahaon January 19, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:True story. Amazing song, top ten to me. Thats all i have, it's self explanitory
    Flag alexalbaon February 04, 2010   Link
  • +1
    General Comment:Just an FYI for those that don't get it right off the bat, "Dimes" is a reference to women - "Perfect tens."

    "Tens" - thus, "Dimes."
    Flag Alastoron October 18, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:The Homeless and the arrogant:

    "We've all seen the man at the liquor store
    Beggin' for your change
    The hair on his face is dirty, dreadlocked
    And full of mange
    He ask the man for what he could spare
    With shame in his eyes
    "Get a job, you fuckin' slob"'s all he replied"

    - It's a homeless man with a skin disease who is shameful of the situation he is in. The man who walked by was representing an arrogant man who didn't consider anything of the homeless man. Maybe he was homeless because he couldnt afford the treatment to his disease?

    "God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in his shoes
    'Cause then you really might know what it's like to sing the blues
    Then you really might know what it's like"

    -Don't degrate a man because of his position. Anyone could wind up like him. i.e Rags to riches to rags

    "Mary got pregnant from a kid named Tom
    Who said he was in love
    He said "Don't worry about a thing, baby doll
    I'm the man you've been dreamin' of,"
    But three months later
    He said he won't date her or return her call
    And she sweared "God damn, if I find that man
    I'm cuttin' off his balls,"
    And then she heads for the clinic
    And she gets some static walkin' through the doors
    They call her a killer, and they call her a sinner
    And they call her a whore"

    - Mary fell in love with a man who lied to her about his committments. He betrayed her and broke her heart. She went and got an abortion, while people considered her a murderer. Maybe she pictured a life with the man of her dreams to raise her kid?. Maybe she couldn't see it without him?. Nor did she get any advice or guidence?. Money Problems?, maybe.

    "God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in her shoes
    'Cause then you really might know what it's like to have to choose
    Then you really might know what it's like"

    - You have to expierence the situation to make a choice for something like that. Giving up a beautiful gift means there was an ugly problem. You can consider a difference, but be greatful you don't have to make a choice like that.

    "I've seen a rich man beg
    I've seen a good man sin
    I've seen a tough man cry
    I've seen a loser win
    And a sad man grin
    I heard an honest man lie
    I've seen the good side of bad
    And the down side of up
    And everything between
    I licked the silver spoon
    Drank from the golden cup
    Smoked the finest green
    I stroked the baddest dimes at least a couple of times
    Before I broke their heart
    You know where it ends
    Yo, it usually depends on where you start"

    - Ironies. The circumstances could be the same for anyone.

    "I knew this kid named Max
    He used to get fat stacks out on the corner with drugs
    He liked to hang out late at night
    Liked to get shit faced
    And keep pace with thugs
    Until late one night there was a big gun fight
    Max lost his head
    He pulled out his chrome .45
    Talked some shit
    And wound up dead
    Now his wife and his kids
    Are caught in the midst of all of his pain
    You know it crumbles that way
    At least that's what they say
    When you play the game"

    - Max didn't consider how far his situation could go, nor did he consider the pain he would leave behind to the people who loved him. Pain.

    "God forbid you ever had to wake up to hear the news
    'Cause then you really might know what it's like to have to lose
    Then you really might know what it's like
    To have to lose..."

    - Be greatful to not wake up to find out someone you love is on the news... You don't deserve that pain.

    All in all it's about accepting life for what it is. Yes it could be better, but it could also be worse.


    Flagged NativePrydeon July 10, 2009   Link

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