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What does friend mean to you?
A word so wrongfully abused
Are you like me, confused
All included but you
Alone...
The sounds of silence often soothe
Shapes and colors shift with mood
Pupils widen and change their hue
Rapid brown avoid clear blue
Why's it have to be this way
Be this way
Flowers watched through wide brown eyes bloom
A child sings an unclaimed tune
Innocence spins cold cocoon
Grow to see the pain too soon
Why's it have to be this way
Be this way (5x)
"At 7 am on a Tuesday, usual August ...
Next week I'll be 28...
I'm still young, it'll be me...
Off the wall I scrape... you...
I can't wake, I gotta wake...
To cause this wake, I gotta wake no more...
It causes wake, to drown this hate....
To never really stay, never will.....
You take your plate...
Put me through hell, live, live...
Direct your fate...
You say I can do it so well...
Your expiration date...
Fate, date, expiration date...
(this was the last time)
Hate...
And don't fuck with me again...
My own clean slate...
Don't fuck with me again...
Makes your eyes dilate...
Makes you shake...
Irate..."
A word so wrongfully abused
Are you like me, confused
All included but you
Alone...
The sounds of silence often soothe
Shapes and colors shift with mood
Pupils widen and change their hue
Rapid brown avoid clear blue
Why's it have to be this way
Be this way
Flowers watched through wide brown eyes bloom
A child sings an unclaimed tune
Innocence spins cold cocoon
Grow to see the pain too soon
Why's it have to be this way
Be this way (5x)
"At 7 am on a Tuesday, usual August ...
Next week I'll be 28...
I'm still young, it'll be me...
Off the wall I scrape... you...
I can't wake, I gotta wake...
To cause this wake, I gotta wake no more...
It causes wake, to drown this hate....
To never really stay, never will.....
You take your plate...
Put me through hell, live, live...
Direct your fate...
You say I can do it so well...
Your expiration date...
Fate, date, expiration date...
(this was the last time)
Hate...
And don't fuck with me again...
My own clean slate...
Don't fuck with me again...
Makes your eyes dilate...
Makes you shake...
Irate..."
Lyrics submitted by Ice
Track duration: 07:30
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My interpretation of this is that someone he trusted and cared about was screwing him over and lying to him. They probably partied together, would sit around and be messed up together, and this person would start bullsh*tting him. "Rapid brown avoid clear blue" is a reference to eyes. Someone with brown eyes wouldn't look him straight in the eye, kept looking elsewhere, darting away, as people do when they lie. (Layne Staley often refers to his eyes as clear blue eyes)
"Why's it have to be this way" is pretty obvious. He's not happy with the way things are.
The childhood verse is a reference to himself and the person he's singing about. They both went through things as children that "ruined" them.
The end of the song, where he's speaking through the distorted microphone, I interpret as he's alone and talking to himself, either out loud or this is his conversation in his head. He's thinking about himself, and how he's not too old to start again, clean up, and make himself happy. "clean slate" etc. He's going to do it to "show" that person for making him upset. As in, "I'll show you!" Then they won't "fuck with me again."
What does friend mean to you?
A word so wrongfully abused
Are you like me, confused
All included but you
Alone...
It seems as if Layne was calling out for help to everyone and everyone seemed to avoid him instead of helping him with his addiction. I always questioned if jerry cantrell and Sean kinney(friends) put enough, or any effort into helping Layne with his addiction or emotional problems like his girlfriends death. I feel as though they got tired of dealing or hearing about it and simply avoided him because of his addiction/problems; leaving him to be alone with himself without.
This verse reminds me of the same questions I ask myself all the time.
Are these people really my friends? I'm feeling confused because my friends are never there when I need them. Isn't a friend supposed to be there for you?
You have, so called, friends, but they are never there for you when you need them.
It doesn't mean theyre your friend just because you hang out with them.
All included but you is in regards to how friends can ditch you when your going through shit, when your down, and they avoid you because they dont want you to bring them down with your problems. So they never invite you when everyone is getting together. So your alone. And you feel more alone and secluded because of this. Its fucked up. This line is one I can totally understand.
THIS song is to that person that hurt layne and is titled frogs because thats how he felt after the ended friendship he could hardly 'croak' words to anyone being lonely. The end is all fragments with .... dots trailing because this is him rethinking what just happened all stoned which would make one sound tired and sort of frog-like. Basically dont be a jerk because the simplest negative idea can hurt one soo much more than the effort put into it. "Sometimes the only way, to change my day?, is to play..., inside the fray." ME-out
"What does friend mean to you? A word so wrongfully abused"
-Meaning when you are young and naive, you think a lot of people are your friends when they're not. And he says next that he is confused.
"Sounds of silence often soothe. Shapes and colors shift the mood"
-It becomes more appealing to be aloof because different things you notice about people change your opinion.
"Innocence spins cold coccoon. Grow to see the pain too soon"
-When you're young and innocent, you are vulnerable to coldness because you're new to things. Having lots of bad experiences will make you grow old faster because you become more vulnerable.
Well, this is how I see the song. I'm sure it could be interpreted several ways.
Layne talking about a child and innocense and saying that he's near his 28 and being "still young" probably means early problems from Layne's and a hope from him to get over them by himself.
This friend seems to have hopes on Layne's improvement (drug problem) and says that Layne "can do it so well". Layne is upset and tells his friend "Don't fuck with me again" with this attitude (not so honest in Layne's opinion) because it "makes his pupil dilate" (lie).
Well just my opinion...
This is a great depressive song, one of AIC's best...
In case you do not know the story, his dad left when Layne was 8 or so. And then a few years later his mom or someone told him that his dad was dead, but Layne did not believe it so he went looking for him, without telling his family.
When he found his dad, he saw he was an addict.
He figured that if he became a rock star that his dad would try and find him and that is exactly what happened. Unfortunately, his dad used him for drugs and drug money and that's about the extent of their relationship.
When Layne was trying to stay clean, his dad would still come by trying to score drugs or money for drugs. This also mirrors what happened with his longtime girlfriend, Demri.
I was just throwing that out there to further the discussion about these lyrics and their meaning.
A guy gets in a fight with another guy who used to be his friend, gets pissed off at him, see?
"What does friend mean to you?
A word so wrongfully abused
Are you like me, confused
All included but you
Alone..."
Then he goes and does drugs and gets completely fucked up and the great idea that that motherfucker should get fucked up for what he did.
"The sounds of silence often soothe
Shapes and colors shift with mood
Pupils widen and change their hue
Rapid brown avoid clear blue"
"Why's it have to be this way?" Could be when he's questioning whatever he's thinking, refusing to believe the obvious truth in front of his eyes. But he learns and blooms into something darker, more sinister. He sees something beautiful but goes into a cold cocoon.
"Flowers watched through wide brown eyes bloom
A child sings an unclaimed tune
Innocence spins cold cocoon
Grow to see the pain too soon"
He goes to confront him and ends up blowing his head off onto the wall on August 7th, and he scrapes him off the walls. He's still young, he'll live out his prison sentence. While trying to rationalize it he realizes he's still angry and decides to get high.
This is all just what I get from the song. Its fucking badass. I love it.