I am sitting
In the morning
At the diner
On the corner

I am waiting
At the counter
For the man
To pour the coffee

And he fills it
Only halfway
And before
I even argue

He is looking
Out the window
At somebody
Coming in

"It is always
Nice to see you"
Says the man
Behind the counter

To the woman
Who has come in
She is shaking
Her umbrella

And I look
The other way
As they are kissing
Their hellos

I'm pretending
Not to see them
And instead
I pour the milk

I open
Up the paper
There's a story
Of an actor

Who had died
While he was drinking
It was no one
I had heard of

And I'm turning
To the horoscope
And looking
For the funnies

When I'm feeling
Someone watching me
And so
I raise my head

There's a woman
On the outside
Looking inside
Does she see me?

No she does not
Really see me
'Cause she sees
Her own reflection

And I'm trying
Not to notice
That she's hitching
Up her skirt

And while she's
Straightening her stockings
Her hair
Has gotten wet

Oh, this rain
It will continue
Through the morning
As I'm listening

To the bells
Of the cathedral
I am thinking
Of your voice...

And of the midnight picnic
Once upon a time
Before the rain began...

I finish up my coffee
It's time to catch the train



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Track duration: 03:48


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    General Comment:To me , this song means the writer is trying to portray herself in this case as a perfect observant, which is not possible, I believe this is intentional in Ms Vega's case... a songwriter would understand everything that the song's "writer" obviously doesn't... an exercise in futility...Could be that she is saying in some ways you cannot understand what you see, because I am supposed to as an artist, but I am showing you I cannot understand the things that I "should"
    Flag forrestgibon October 20, 2012   Link
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    My Interpretation:
    Strange, I've heard this song like a million times, but only when I stopped and read the lyrics (on one of the lyrics websites) did the start to make sense to me. My take:
    It's a snapshot of the speaker's feelings during a short morning scene at a cafe. She doesn't seem to be feeling great about herself. First, she's ignored by the waiter, who then goes on to show preferential treatment to another customer. She tries to turn to something else, the paper, but the news there is bad too - an actor who died while drinking. Perhaps the speaker is also an artist and can't help but identify with the actor - will her stumbling career end that way too? Okay, maybe that was a bit of a stretch - but at the very least, encountering that article seems to reflect and enhance the speaker's gloominess.
    "Turning to the horoscope" - equates to asking: and what will be of ME? And again, perhaps asking, how will my fate end up compared to that actor?
    "Looking for the funnies" - in hope of consolation, that she does not get to, once again, because she's interrupted by the feeling of being watched.

    Now, this being watched thing can be read at more than one level. Perhaps, as others suggested, this shows the disconnection between people (the other woman can't see her). But on another level, I'd say the other woman is the speaker as well. I mean, "on the outside, looking inside" is a perfect description of introspection.
    "Does she see me?" - do I understand myself? or, perhaps, does my external behavior reflect who I am? Can I see myself for who I truly am, or have I got caught up in my "reflection",i.e. the face I like to show to the world.

    "Hitching up her skirt…. and while she's straightening her stocking / her hair has gotten wet"
    The author is reflecting on how stressing (and perhaps using) her sexuality has worked out for her. Did she get damaged along the way ("her hair has gotten wet").

    "Wet" seems to represents sadness - as is evidenced by the sigh "oh… this rain" - the gloomy period in the speaker's life isn't over yet. Perhaps it will continue as long as she's "listening to … the cathedral… thinking of your voice", that is, not over him.


    Flag sleepy1on June 30, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:I view it as a very insecure and lonely woman maybe even one who has gone through a bit of trauma or struggling to get over something from the past such as divorce. When she has her coffee it's like there is all this talk, action and people around her but she still can't connect to it or is to scared to involve herself in it. When she sees the women hitching up her skirt she can't believe how someone is the complete opposite to her in relation to confidence. Picking up the paper and looking for the funnies is one way she attempts to brighten up her insecure life. Not knowing the actor who had died is an example of how out of touch she is with the world.
    Flag beaukoon January 13, 2010   Link
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    My Interpretation:I have always liked this song. Suzanne Vega's voice is used beautifully in this song. A few days ago the song came on random and I just felt as if I understood it. I know other's have touched on similar meanings. But here is my interpretation. (I wrote it assuming the main character was female. The person doesn't have to be either gender, it could be anyone.)

    The song seems to be about living in today's society. Each person has their own life, and most are isolated from one another. The main character is a woman whom seems to be lonely in her isolated world. She is looking if people notice her ("Does she see me?") and distracting herself in between (e.g. ignoring the greeting between the two acquaintances, looking through the paper, listening to the cathedral bells and thinking of someone's voice). The loneliness that she embodies seems to be a shared loneliness in today's society. We are social beings, and usually are looking to connect with someone. When on our own we tend to occupy our minds with our own thoughts or outside distractions (e.g. reading, writing, music, etc...). At other times we tend to seek contact with another, be it that casual hello or even a moment of eye contact.

    Suzanne Vega seems to be telling a story that expands further than the main character. The man behind the counter and the woman who walks in seem to have their own separate lives, isolated from the main character. The woman looking inside is going about her own life. She doesn't acknowledge anyone in the diner, only focusing on herself. The dead actor whom the main character does not recognize, was just another person drifting along through this world. Some people may know (remember) you and others will not. As if we live in our little worlds which sometimes may connect with others.
    Flag dejectedroboton September 01, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:Even I feel this song's about a woman's loneliness.
    There's nothing worse to a woman than go unnoticed!

    By the way, Suzanne Vega's voice sounds so similar to Sophie Ellis-Bextor's -- to me.
    Flag nirion July 24, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:possibly trying to keep her thoughts away from a man she's trying not to think about but is failing her because she ends up thinking about his voice. At the end she is heading for the train. Possibly moving on with her life and leaving him behind.
    Flag NutzyPixeon November 02, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:I agree with RSATORI one hundred percent. I always thought she was trying to distract herself with mundane and everyday things she sings about.
    Flag NutzyPixeon November 02, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:I play this song when I don't want to think about nothing or anything.
    Flag NutzyPixeon November 02, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:spot on bellevedette
    Flag !@#$%^&*()on October 03, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:I always thought of it as a song about a woman who is distracting herself in life, talking about everything she notices. At the end of the song she gives note to church bells and someone familiar. The whole chorus itself of dooo dooo dooo doo kind of shows she's keeping herself busy. She may also be a sad and lonely person too, which I wouldn't doubt.
    Flag RSATORIon April 18, 2008   Link

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