We hear you're leaving, that's OK
I thought our little wild time had just begun
I guess you kind of scared yourself, you turn and run
But if you have a change of heart

[Chorus]
Rikki don't lose that number
You don't want to call nobody else
Send it off in a letter to yourself
Rikki don't lose that number
It's the only one you own
You might use it if you feel better
When you get home

I have a friend in town, he's heard your name
We can go out driving on Slow Hand Row
We could stay inside and play games, I don't know
And you could have a change of heart

[Chorus]

You tell yourself you're not my kind
But you don't even know your mind
And you could have a change of heart

[Chorus]



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"Rikki Don't Lose That Number" as written by Walter Carl Becker, Donald Jay Fagen

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    General Comment:Some of these comments are simply preposterous. While it's true human nature compels us to find greater meaning in simple things, the simple truth is this is not the great American nove. It's a rock & roll song. Becker & Fagen may be intellectuals, but when you stop over analyzing the lyrics, All their songs boil down to the same thing every other red blooded American male was writing about: sex, drugs & rock & roll. Or in their case, sex, drugs & jazz.Wake up guys, a cigar is just a cigar!!
    Flag WesMitchelon March 06, 2013   Link
  • -1
    General Comment:Rikki Ducornet may believe that Fagen wrote it to her, but Fagen denies/ won't confirm, and frankly it makes little sense.

    "I have a friend in town (with a reference to Clapton in the next line)- He's heard your name"

    Now I've been to Annandale, and the idea that somebody famous or otherwise could be in town that had heard the name of a Bard professor's knocked up/ shotgun wed daughter in 1968/69 is just ridiculous.

    Town obviously refers to NYC, where Becker and were after Bard from June 1969. From Becker and Fagen's writings about the sheer desperation of their early years, they wouldn't have held back on a potential commercial success, and thus it's hard to believe that they would sit on this song while releasing "Can't buy a Thrill" and "Countdown to Ecstasy". So it was likely written in 1973 in the form that was recorded on "Pretzel Logic" and the song likely refers to experiences that likely took place in 1971 or 1972.

    Rikki D had been living in France for almost 4 years when RDLTN was released. The only reference to Rikki D being THE Rikki comes from Rikki D in an Entertainment Tonight segment. At a time when she just divorced, moved back to the states and started a writing/teaching career. In other words, she had a motive and a convenient background story, to use her old friend's fame to give her a boost. Fagen was probably like: "yeah, whatever"....

    It's time to let this go as a dead end meaning for this song.

    Also, the underlying theme of the gay seduction of a straight guy is just so there and in your face that it's really hard to imagine this written in a hetero context. Maybe it's me but I just can't hear the song and not pick up on it.

    I'm already on record- the song is to Rick Nelson, written in 1972.
    Flagged dblentendron January 03, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:Like someone posted earlier there is an article that says Fagen gave his number to a professor's wife. They referred to it as unrequited love.

    Kind of interesting back in the day when they composed madrigals they held it as the purest form of love. Fagen's probably familiar with Sergio de Bergerac and it being present in literature.

    Interesting because most people would think it's creepy but I guess if you're a rockstar what do you have to lose.
    Flag bkabbotton December 30, 2012   Link
  • -1
    General Comment:I feel this song is written to Rick Nelson in the wake of the "Garden Party" fiasco. "we hear you're leaving, that's ok" Rick had come to New York, where Fagen and Becker were still just starting out and Fagen was part of the drug culture that was the scene at the time. The garden party saw Rick N debut a new style, a departure from his previous pop confections, and he was booed off the stage (or so he thought- look it up).

    He walked off the stage in the middle of his set, and withdrew from public life for two years, until he came out with his song- Garden Party- where he relates his feelings about the incident succinctly: "you can't please everyone, so ya got please yourself"

    Fagen thinks Nelson (who he's got a mancrush on), will leave the music scene forever. He will never be able to finish making his play for Rick. The number is Fagen's phone number. I have a friend into town refers to Eric Clapton. We can go driving on slowhand road means we can get together and Jam with Eric and maybe work on developing a newer sound in the studio at CBS. If you have a change of heart means, if you decide to come back to music and the scene, etc.
    Flag dblentendron December 13, 2012   Link
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    Memory:I've got some news to tell the world about this song...its way overdue. Long time ago, there was a girl named Colleen Franklin Peirce....who was a roadie, or groopie, and traveled a period with a guy named Ricky Renolds from Black Oak Arkansas. They knew each other for a period of time...not sure how long, but what I am sure about is, I watched her write this song, tears in her eyes, scratching out lines, rewriting, over and over.....I watched her......because I was there.....she was my sister. This song was written because Colleen Loved Ricky. At the time, she was a babysitter for three kids in Los Angeles, or Hollywood, can't remember, but they were in the music industry. She begged them to take up the band to a label...not sure what that meant, but I remember the arguments....she wanted them to take Black Oak Arkansas to another level, that I do remember.

    I remember seeing Ricky with my sister, jumping on the bed, laughing. It was crazy days back then. Days filled with hash, and weed, and other things, not sure. But I am sure about my sisters love for Ricky, and I am fucking damn straight sure that she wrote that song for him. So fuck off Steely Dan...not sure how you got the lyrics, but I am sure of where it came from because I have the fucking book!!!!!!
    Flagged janabon October 09, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:OMG Stop with the it was about drugs already even though every other song is especially back then!! IT'S ABOUT A MAN AS YOU KNOW "Donald Fagen" is openly gay!! It's about some guy he really liked a lot but the other guy was not gay BUT however who know's what happen what eventually did or did not happen and this is the correct info I swear!!
    Flagged pumag13on April 13, 2012   Link
  • +1
    General Comment:Wow, I always thought the lyric was " . . . scared yourself, you turnin wrong"

    Not coincidentally, I always thought this was a love song from Rikki's first gay lover, from whom Rikki is fleeing, but who is not the only thing Rikki is fleeing. How do you reason with someone not just rejecting you, but rejecting your very sexuality.
    Flag tpksummerson February 29, 2012   Link
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    My Interpretation:I don't think SD was so obscure here. Guys, think back when you were 12 or 13 and had a crush for the 16-17 yr. old girl on the block, and she wanted nothing to do with you, but was always nice to you. You misconstrued her nice disposition as a crush on you, and you wanted to impress her in any way possible.
    I believe RDLTN is about a young boy in this same position. His older crush is moving away and he knows where, has family connections there and wants to help her ease the pain of moving (and try to impress her) by giving her a number of a friend or family member. He just wants to spend more time with her by playing games (too immature for more intimate things) and hopes she will stay and not go. I've been in this situation and this is not too far-fetched.
    Flag JFSon September 02, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:I don't know where I got this connection, but I always thought this song was about Ricky Nelson and his Garden Party hit. You're leaving that's okay - about getting booed off the stage while doing covers, and leaving Madison Square Garden disgusted. Don't lose that number, it's the only one you own - Garden Party came out of that experience and was his big hit, not another cover. You could have a change of heart - rather than dissing the industry and fans, he could try to make a come back.

    Also, the timing is about right. The garden party incident happened in 1972, and Rikki came out in 1974. A very obscure reference, but aren't they all?
    Flag dkukieon July 14, 2011   Link
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    Song Meaning:I've ALWAYs thought it sounded like a closeted gay reference. But I just read about Rikki D.. on wikipedia. Still... really, sometimes a song isn't about one thing. Not that it has "double meaning", but maybe the song was inspired by this Rikki person at Bard who Fagen knew -- because he gave her his number, nothing deep there, catchy songs are written all the time about the tiniest incidents -- and somewhere in the writing process they came up with these catchy lyrics about "tell yourself you're not my kind.." etc. I dont' know though.... the whole "game" thing. Hm.... It's kind of puzzling with the Rikki Ducornet information. Til then, it positively sounded like a gay/sexual issue. But why would Donald Fagen be writing that...? Open minded, compassionate dude, obviously. Now, hey -- Does anyone know who the vain person is in Carly Simon's song? THERE's a puzzle that many think they have the answer to!
    Flag chanteuseon August 20, 2010   Link

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