So long ago, I don't remember when
That's when they say I lost my only friend
Well they said she died easy of a broken heart disease
As I listened through the cemetery trees

I seen the sun comin' up at the funeral at dawn
The long broken arm of human law
Now it always seemed such a waste, she always had a pretty face
So I wondered how she hung around this place

Hey, come on try a little
Nothing is forever
There's got to be something better than
In the middle
But me & Cinderella
We put it all together
We can drive it home
With one headlight

She said it's cold
It feels like Independence Day
And I can't break away from this parade
But there's got to be an opening
Somewhere here in front of me
Through this maze of ugliness and greed
And I seen the sun up ahead at the county line bridge
Sayin' all there's good and nothingness is dead
We'll run until she's out of breath
She ran until there's nothin' left
She hit the end, it's just her window ledge

Hey, come on try a little
Nothing is forever
There's got to be something better than
In the middle
But me & Cinderella
We put it all together
We can drive it home
With one headlight

Well this place is old
It feels just like a beat up truck
I turn the engine, but the engine doesn't turn
Well it smells of cheap wine, cigarettes
This place is always such a mess
Sometimes I think I'd like to watch it burn
I'm so alone and I feel just like somebody else
Man, I ain't changed, but I know I ain't the same
But somewhere here in between the city walls of dyin' dreams
I think of death, it must be killin' me

Hey, hey hey come on try a little
Nothing is forever
There's got to be something better than
In the middle
But me & Cinderella
We put it all together
We can drive it home
With one headlight



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"One Headlight" as written by Jakob Dylan

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    General Comment:So long ago,I don't remember when....that's when they said I lost my only friend.

    I returned to my hometown for a early morning funeral for someone I consider my friend.
    The long arm of human law, death has taken her. They whisper she died of a broken heart as I sit here back in the trees watching the funeral.
    She had such a pretty face, so much potential it seems a waste that she choose to stay here and try to make it better.
    I never did understand how she stayed when I left. This place was so run down and messed up. I remember I used to think the only way out was dying. That I would die here in this city. This city that dreams died in.

    She used to say,
    "Hey, come on try a little , nothing lasts forever. There's got to be something better than being stuck in the middle of of all this."

    She made me believe that we could do it. She made anyone she spoke to want to try. Want to find something better. She gave hope. And yet she stayed and helped even more.

    She used to say,
    "Even a car with one headlight can get you home."

    She and I, we put it all together so I rise up and out. But she stayed to help others.

    She would say,
    There's got to be an opening, somewhere here in front of you. Through this maze of ugliness and greed for you to get out."

    When I finally found my way out she was there.

    She told me, as we stoped at the county line bridge on my way out of this city,
    "It's cold but this is your independence day. Today we celebrate your freedom. But I have to stay. This parade needs me to help others. Remember, all there's good in the world is there for you. This nothingness is dead and gone, now in your past."

    I was scared to leave all I knew. So she said "Lets run!" and ran with me, helped me past this last part. Over the bridge and out of the city until she ran out of breath. Like she was giving me one last push with all her heart. It seemed so strange at the time, running over a silly bridge. But it meant more than I knew. But she ran until there was nothing left. Helped so many but each failure she took to heart and it must have got to her. It must have broke her heart. The ones that would not, could not get out. She ran out of hope. She hit her end and found it at the edge of a window ledge.

    I wander this place where I grew up. I look around at the mess, the poverty and the squalor. They say she died of a broken heart disease. Too many she could not help. Those who would not help themselves rise up out of this hell hole they were born in. It stinks of cigarettes and cheap wine. How could she stand it? Sometimes I think I would like to watch it burn. This place that destroyed someone like her.

    Right now, I feel so alone and I feel like somebody else. The memories of who I was, where I came from and who am I now. I know I have not changed but I know am not the same person I was when I was here. This place is so old and run down. It feels like the truck I used too own when I was here. Always on the verge of dying on me. The one that died before I left. Now, it just will not start anymore. The life has left. She has left.
    Flag Shadowedgeon April 01, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:I think the song is about coming to recognize the futility of being a romantic/ idealist/ optimist in a world that does not support such attitudes, yet refusing to change them nonetheless.
    Flag TDelon March 18, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:Vh1: do you hear a lot of weird interpretations of your songs?

    Dylan: I used to always have to hear about who people thought died in “one headlight.” there was never anybody who died in “one headlight.” but I actually encourage that. Countless times you hear an artist explain what their songs are about and you’re disappointed. I prefer people to listen. If they like the drumbeat, i’m okay with that. Whatever moves people.

    from: lyricinterpretations.com/The-Wallflowers/…
    Flag charka13on March 02, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:A friendship between two people was based on being depressed together, and his friend committed suicide and he's feeling survival guilt because he didn't do it with her.
    Flag aries64xxon February 01, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:To me this song is about carrying on with life after someone dies. Trying to move on though your life is irrevocably changed while trying to keep this person alive in your heart.

    He's singing about a girl who committed suicide, which is made clear by the lines "she died easy of a broken heart disease" and "She ran until there's nothin' left, She hit the end, it's just her window ledge" which seems to indicate she jumped out of a window. He talks about visiting her place, or some place she frequented, and how it's all broken dreams and he wants to watch it burn. It's the only thing left that remains of her in the real world, but it's filled with reminders of her hard life. He feels like he has failed her.

    The most important part of the song, the driving it home with one headlight, is his way of coping with the loss. The world is a cruel and messed up place, but together the two of them made their way through it, feeling whole. Now she's gone but he resolves to carry on, to fight through to the end, even though this light in his life has gone out. What strikes me is his use of "we" as in "we can drive it home". She's dead, but he's still going to make it through for her. Pick up where she left off, and make it home (someplace where he can live his life in happiness and peace), because she couldn't. He will carry her memory with him, and try his best to live whatever dream they had aspired to when they were together, alone.
    Flag sporkleson January 25, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:so long ago (they say) bout gang of friends? one that was possibly included to be her boyrfriend??relaying info on to a past friend (possibly affair situation) that she died or dying from alcohol (broken heart disease). Her hair was died a color other then one he had seen before. (he was told this) So he had not seen her for long time possibly he lived out of town somewhere other then where the gang of friends hung out possible grew up. She could of had an affair?and she had a headlight out and he followed her home at night to make sure she got home safely she didnt stay the night of the affair b cuz she felt guilty and had to sort through her emotions to come to what had occured in the meantime this person relayed the info onto his best friend who was seeing her that he should stay out of being in the middle... Nothing last forever ( kinda get over it it didnt work out for you so move on ) Its cold refering to a feeling not in temperature sort of way but possibly the feelings of a breakup that someone is condsideringdoing a hard to do breakup but in the end leads to indepence day a good day of feeling free from some sort of control
    Flag MaybeeNoton July 12, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:so long ago (they say) bout gang of friends? one that was possibly included to be her boyrfriend ?..relaying info on to a past friend (possibly affair situation) that she died or dying from alcohol (broken heart disease). Her hair was died a color other then one he had seen before. (he was told this) So he had not seen her for long time possibly he lived out of town somewhere other then where the gang of friends hung out possible grew up. She could of had an affair?and she had a headlight out and he followed her home at night to make sure she got home safely sometime in his past
    Flag MaybeeNoton July 12, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:I think it is possible that this song is about someone who has died, and is in the "in between place", and the girl who loved him and took her own life to be with him. Now that they are together, they can find their final resting place.
    Flag littlered22on February 29, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:The lyrics tell a fragmentary story about a former friend and her death, and the singer's emotions in the aftermath. The use of strong words and images and the incomplete story have resulted in many different interpretations of the song, which include suicide, drug abuse, death of a lover, death of one's mother, having breast cancer and/or depression.

    Jakob Dylan, the lead singer and songwriter of The Wallflowers, has said that the song is about "the death of ideas" and that the many metaphors and images in the lyrics were not meant to be taken literally. Dylan explains that he and the band had very little support when they were putting together the record, hence the shout-out "c'mon try a little." The last two lines of the chorus "we can drive it home / with one headlight" are a reference to how the band were able to get through with their ideas despite being hindered (i.e. with one headlight) by the lack of support. (Wikipedia)
    Flag musiclover9753on January 28, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:This song really MEANS THE WORLD to me. This song helped me through my spiritual awakening. Let me attempt to describe what this song means for me, or my story. I had my first awakening with my first love. He was so amazing I fell madly in love with him and sadly still am after five years of not being together. One day I lost my only friend. I was the one who died of the broken heart disease. I tried to understand everything he was doing and had done to me. (I wasnt perfect by no means) but I was cheated on, he left his second girlfriend and came back to me after he cheated on her, and was a total asshole. I could not believe that the one person I loved so much turned out to be this selfish guy. He came back and I was thinking YES we are totally gonna get back together. We fooled around because I was an idiot and belived so much like a young girl "nothing makes anymore sense than this", but after realized he was screwing everything that moved and was speaking to his friends about me as if i was just a joke, hinting to have his friend have sex with me..... I then died AGAIN. I was so far gone. I began to party VERY hard. I had ten sex parters in one year and cried the first time it was anyone but him.....and all i did was drink, work, smoke pot, and hang with my friends. Dreams, nightmares, every second trying to figure out what the fuck happened. I was so confused. I wanted there to be an opening in front of me through this maze of uglliness and greed. AND I GOT IT.
    My grandfather passed away, and I loved him more than anything. He helped me SADLY. He spent his whole life trying to figure out the wrongs in life, tried so hard to drink his pain away and could not move on from his real love. He drowned in that bottle. NOW THINKING "In the end your dead either way." I woke the fuck up. I realized I cant sit here anymore, I cant do nothing with my life because no matter if im happy or sad the world is still moving..... My first love is a musician. I wrote a poem very much influenced through this song and attempted to tell my first love what I learned because he was obviously going down a road to NO WHERE!!!! I always told him Id help him if needed. yet after a few calls, and realizing I was hurt so bad I cant be the same near him I wrote it out to the public and manipulated my way where I knew he would read it. (he had a girlfriend and didnt want to fuck that up BECAUSE IM TOO FUCKING NICE) He did and took that as a blast at his ego. I then saw him maybe like 6 months after and stopped by his work. The only thing he talked about with me is how many women he had sex with and how he is an animal in bed. He had no idea that it was killing me everytime he spoke. I pretty much got up and left. I cried on the way home..... Then the next day he turns 180 for this 17 year old girl who he treated like shit and she is like me. I really like the girl and feel bad because she is doing the same thing I did, and I hope he doesnt do the same to her. Everytime I am near this "kid/man" I die and go right back into a depressed state. I have to keep reminding myself that I was dreaming, reality is a motherfucker to set in.....
    This song was me going through the motions of real life and getting to that opening..... Its real hard. I have a boyfriend now and been together almost two years. I am still hurt by my first that I havnt fully opened myself up to him. I feel I have nothing to give him anymore. I cant even be vulnerable because I can not deal with being devistated. Its hard navigating through life without the one who I felt was my other headlight.... Im hoping in the end he and I can drive it home with one headlight.... Navigating through bullshit with only half the vision to where both of us want to go...It sucks.....

    Yup there you go I had to rant lol.... have a good one and INTERPRET THE SONG HOWEVER YOU WANT!!!! THAT IS WHAT MAKES MUSIC SO SPIRITUAL AND AMAZING!!!!
    Flag PinkAndBlack89on December 14, 2011   Link

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