They’re turning away from me
Backstabbing places they roam
My friends are just neighbors
That steal from me when I’m not home
I am so damn trusting I do not see their malice
In this blackened wonderland I am the darkened Alice
Sometimes I can’t fathom why everyone’s so two faced
So I’ll just backstab them back to get them back in their place
All my friends are enemies
And they just turn their backs to my face, their actions biting me
And all my friends are enemies
So I’m always on my own
I’m the ball, they’re batters
They’re climbing social ladders
I’m left at the bottom
On my goodness they’re fatter
Sometimes I remember the days when friends were loyal
Instead they backstab me- I’m falling down so royally
Always on my own


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    "In this blackened wonderland I am the darkened Alice" favorite line

    alexxxfaceeeon May 29, 2008   Link
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    there's another Say Anything? ive never heard of any of these songs... so im assuming this isnt the Say Anything from Michigan... oh well, theyre good too!

    AlkalineThursdayon July 19, 2002   Link
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    ...in this blackened wonderland.... just an amazing lyricist... stoked for their new album in september

    rabidpenguinon March 20, 2003   Link
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    i love say anything, specially this song.

    justakidon March 24, 2003   Link
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    i love say anything, specially this song.

    justakidon March 24, 2003   Link
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    i hate friends

    pixiestixeepon March 31, 2003   Link
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    i love this song.. I LOVE THIS BAND!!!!!! they just got signed with doghouse.. its a dream come true!! yea.. all my friends left me.. all i have now is my boyfriend. FRIENDS DEFINATELY SUCK..

    pixiestixeepon April 10, 2003   Link
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    dude this song rocks and it's true

    shmokeon June 18, 2003   Link
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    yeah doghouse is mad rad. someone needs to add the 30 something new songs though because baseball was a good album, yeah, but the new songs are 100 times better musically & lyrically. like belt & transylvanian.. wow amazing songs.

    trinketon June 24, 2003   Link
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    I love this song!!! This band rocks. Especially the vocalist voice!!! Ah Galera!!! Vale a pena ouvi-los!!! Falouusss!

    cindyali1on June 28, 2003   Link

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