I try so hard to be just for you
Careful what I want to know and what I do
Make my second nature all you ever see
You're sure it's the only way to be

Never go too far or ever stay too late
Worry what I think about and what I say
Make this second nature all I ever show
You're sure it's the only one to know
You're sure it's the only way to go

But why can't I why can't I believe?
Believe why can't I believe?

I don't want to break it down with you
Wondering if I ever did and never who
Take my second nature all you ever need
You're sure it's the only way to feel

Always run it back before I really should
Thin-lipped sorry every time to make it good
Take this second nature, all I ever play
You're sure it's the only one to stay
You're sure it's the only way

But why can't I why can't I
Why can't I why can't I
Why why
Why can't I be me? (Simply elegant)


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    God! This song is great why hasn't anyone commented this masterpiece? It obviously seems like a person who is being someone he/she isnt for this other person and is just in thought over it. upset.

    All Cats are Greyon September 25, 2006   Link
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    cause this song is supposed to be "why can't i be you" not why cant i be me

    the_riddler42on June 14, 2007   Link
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    No, there is a Cure Song called Why Can't I Be Me. It was a b-side on the single for Taking Off. :)

    zyxion August 10, 2007   Link
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    identity disorder :P

    billythecrashsxckeron December 03, 2007   Link
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    A relationship with someone holding you back is a possible take, but I wonder if, after all these years, Robert still struggles with getting the labels and such to agree with him and to let him do his own thing.

    chardsofglasson January 23, 2009   Link

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