Love I get so lost, sometimes
Days pass and this emptiness fills my heart
When I want to run away
I drive off in my car
But whichever way I go
I come back to the place you are

All my instincts, they return
And the grand facade, so soon will burn
Without a noise, without my pride
I reach out from the inside

In your eyes
The light the heat
In your eyes
I am complete
In your eyes
I see the doorway to a thousand churches
In your eyes
The resolution of all the fruitless searches
In your eyes
I see the light and the heat
In your eyes
Oh, I want to be that complete
I want to touch the light
The heat I see in your eyes

Love, I don't like to see so much pain
So much wasted and this moment keeps slipping away
I get so tired of working so hard for our survival
I look to the time with you to keep me awake and alive

And all my instincts, they return
And the grand facade, so soon will burn
Without a noise, without my pride
I reach out from the inside

In your eyes
The light the heat
In your eyes
I am complete
In your eyes
I see the doorway to a thousand churches
In your eyes
The resolution of all the fruitless searches
In your eyes
I see the light and the heat
In your eyes
Oh, I want to be that complete
I want to touch the light,
The heat I see in your eyes
In your eyes, in your eyes
In your eyes, in your eyes
In your eyes, in your eyes


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In Your Eyes Lyrics as written by Peter Gabriel

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  • +5
    General Comment

    This song is about someone whom is confessing thier love for someone else. They want to run and hide, but no matter what, fate keeps pulling them back to where they are now. A very beautiful love song indeed. The set of lyrics that go "And all my instincts, they return..." and so on, he's realizing that his facade of denial is fading and that there's no turning back, which means that he has to say what he feels...and by looking in the person's eyes, they feel as if, they're whole again. This is definitely a nice song to identify with.

    TasChiBandGirlon May 17, 2002   Link
  • +4
    General Comment

    This song is an incredible explanation of how when people are in love, there's no way of escaping it, it's just daily bread to feel so desperately in love and needy to be with someone.

    sofi_aon July 30, 2002   Link
  • +4
    General Comment

    To me, this is about loving someone so deeply that it becomes spiritual. When you're that connected, that person can always pull you back from the brink of insanity ("All my instincts, they return") and the craziness of the fronts we have to put on ("And the grand facade so soon will burn"). To love someone that way is metaphysical--I think that's what the lyrics about the doors of a thousand churches refers to. The light, the heat, the completeness you have with them is something beyond this world, something only music can explain.

    law4on August 25, 2010   Link
  • +3
    General Comment

    guys who said it was about rosanna arquette, you're absolutely right. Peter Gabriel said so himself. Actually it was a kind of response to what the band Toto did. Their keyboardist used to date ms Arquette, but she broke it off with him for Peter, So the band got together and penned the song "Rosanna" for her. Funnily enough, she wasn't overly impressed, and was only truely blown away when Peter Gabriel released "in your eyes" in response. Man, that key boardist at Toto, gotta feel for him, and Rosanne Arquette had got to be the hot stuff back then! two excellent songs in her name

    deludedon December 23, 2005   Link
  • +3
    General Comment

    dont think it actually has anything to do with christianity, although he mentions churches..what he means with 'seeing the doorway to a thousand churches' is probably that in his lovers eyes he feels the peace and protection of a thousand churches..dont we just love this guys music :)

    R4CH3Lon September 18, 2007   Link
  • +2
    General Comment

    when i first heard this song and actually listened to it, i definitely felt that it was about his relationship with God, indirectly. but I also think that maybe only Christians would notice that because they feel it too. But it can also be a very beautiful love song to others. And I think that's one reason it's written like that, so you can make it relate to what you want it to be.

    ilostmyforkon December 16, 2005   Link
  • +2
    General Comment

    This song is about God. Only in God's eyes are we complete. I don't think there is any discussion to this. Love is God. Yes this song is the ultimate love song, and can be used to convey your feelings for someone. But God's love is the ultimate, and this is about the ultimate love, wanting to be divine. It is divine love.

    I want to be that complete!

    rj5570on October 29, 2008   Link
  • +2
    My Interpretation

    He seems to me to be having some struggles with this love. He says he's tired of fighting for their survival. He's trying to pull away, but cannot because his love for her trumps everything else. For some reason he cannot completely be with her and it's hurting him, but he won't give up. There's pain, emptiness, fears the moments slipping away. But he loves her so much and he's too far gone. Vulnerable. In love. Without saying a word, ignoring his pride, he reaches out from the inside anyways and expresses his love to her

    bob1020462on June 15, 2015   Link
  • +2
    Song Meaning

    I must confess I've never made any research regarding Gabriel's interviews and so forth. My impressions are: 1) There's nothing about God for sure. 2) It's related to his first marriage, the conflict that generated his exit from Genesis (his band versus his wife, both asking for more time). The line "I get so tired of working so hard for our survival" is emblematic of the probable arguments which filled his head and led him to "drive off on his car" to blow off the steam. If his marriage's problems and final dissolution provoked him into so much suffering, they also provided inspiration for masterpieces as (this song included) washing of the water and blood of Eden. 3) It's one of the most sincere and down-to-earth love songs I know.

    adcrespoon August 30, 2015   Link
  • +2
    General Comment

    It's not about religion, so stop thinking so literally. In Chinese culture there are muses to the hell of (whatever) I.E. The hell were people are skinned alive..etc. In this reference Peter is using a metaphor. The doorway to the church of happiness, the church of pulsating breasts, church of lifelong bliss..get it?

    Ever look in someone's eyes and see your future? That is the doorway to the church of fate. chao..

    androidcurtison January 29, 2016   Link

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